Not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
True love doesn’t come to you; it has to be inside of you.
– Julia Roberts
We are mostly interested in the things that interest us and we end up naturally gravitating toward those things. We can make our spouses feel that their interests are inferior to ours, when we don’t pay attention to the things that are important to them. Make a decision to express interest in the things that interest the person that you would like to stay in love with.
Recommended resource: Staying in Love by Andy Stanley