You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.
Love is not blind – it sees more, not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less.
Rabbi Julius Gordon
It is so easy to shift the blame in marriage. Each spouse needs to take ownership of their own part of the problem. We are responsible for our hearts, our loves, our time and our talents before the Lord. So remove that plank from your eye before it hits you over the head. 🙂
Recommended resource: Boundaries in Marriage by Cloud and Townsend