1 Corinthians 13:5
Love does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to have this woman as your wife.
It can become very easy to play the “blame game” in marriage and avoid taking responsibility for our own actions. How about turning it all around and starting to focus on the good in our spouses rather than the bad. When we do this, we end up wanting to do good in return and reap positive results in our marriage.
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